Book description
Combining painfully honest memoir, cultural analysis, and reporting, BoyMom is a humorous and heartbreaking deep dive into the complexities of raising boys in our fraught political moment. "Rapist, school-shooter, incel, man-child, interrupter, mansplainer, boob-starer, birthday forgetter, frat boy, dude-bro, homophobe, self-important stoner, emotional-labor abstainer, non-wiper of kitchen counters. Trying to raise good sons suddenly felt like a hopeless task." As the culture wars rage, and masculinity has been politicized from all sides, feminist writer and mother of three boys Ruth Whippman finds herself conflicted and scared. While the right pushes a dangerous vision of fantasy manhood, her feminist peers often dismiss boys as little more than entitled predators-in-waiting. Meanwhile her home life feels like a daily confrontation with the triumph of nature over nurture. With young men in the grip of a loneliness epidemic and dying by suicide at a rate of nearly four times their female peers, Whippman asks: How do we raise our sons to have a healthy sense of self without turning them into privileged assholes? How can we find a feminism that holds boys to a higher standard but still treats them with empathy? And what do we do when our boys won't cooperate with our plans? Whippman digs into the impossibly contradictory pressures boys now face; and the harmful blind spots of male socialization that are leaving boys isolated, emotionally repressed, and adrift. Feminist gonzo-style, she spends months interviewing incels, reports on a conference for boys accused of sexual assault; crashes at a residential therapy center for young men in Utah, talks to a wide range of psychologists and other experts, and gets boys of all backgrounds to open up about sex, consent, porn, body image, mental health, cancel culture, screens, friendship and loneliness. Along the way, she finds her simple certainties about male privilege seriously challenged. With wit, honesty, and a refusal to settle for easy answers, BoyMom charts a new path to give boys a healthier, more expansive, and fulfilling story about their own lives.
About the Author
Ruth Whippman is a British author, journalist, and cultural critic living in the United States. A former BBC documentary director and producer, her writing has appeared in the New York Times, Time magazine, New York magazine, The Guardian, HuffPost, and elsewhere. Fortune described her as one of the "25 sharpest minds" of the decade. She is the author of the book America the Anxious, which was a New York Post Best Book of the Year, a New York Times Editors' Choice and Paperback Row pick. She lives in California with her husband and three sons.
Twisty Freesia
No more fighting over the radio during family trips β we're all hooked on audiobooks now. The ability to adjust the playback speed has made my commute even more efficient. ποΈπ§ Escaping to paradise with a beach read β this app is my vacation in audio form! ποΈπ Listening statistics motivate me to read more. Excellent feature!
Mr. Gadget
Finally, a way to enjoy literature on the go without straining my eyes. ListenBook has made my daily activities more interesting and meaningful β I'm hooked! I'm hooked on this app's ability to make every moment a reading moment. πΆββοΈπ§ Enjoying the great outdoors while immersing myself in fantastic tales β walking never felt this magical! ποΈπ
Mad Robin
Now I can enjoy my favorite books anytime, even during workouts. ListenBook's smooth playback and easy navigation ensure that my audiobook experience is always top-notch. I can't believe how quickly I finish books now, all thanks to this app. CUE playlist support helps me organize my audiobooks efficiently. It's a great organizational tool. ListenBookβs interface is clean and intuitive. Itβs a joy to use.
Sloth
Mood-based playlists help me choose books that suit my current state of mind. Changing the tone of the sound on ListenBook Pro is a fun way to customize my listening experience. This app's sleek design and effortless controls have made audiobook listening an immersive experience. Audiobook multitasking simplified β this app's ease of use is a true asset. The app is perfect for people who love to read but donβt have the time.
DeathDancer
ListenBook's commitment to excellence shines through in its user-friendly interface and smooth playback. Sharing audiobooks with friends through AirDrop and Sharing on ListenBook Pro is a fantastic way to spread the joy of audiobooks. I've never experienced such a smooth audiobook player. The playback is seamless. As someone who struggles to focus on audiobooks, this kept my attention the whole way through. The narrator's clear diction and expressive delivery were perfect.
Mindless Bobcat
I'm discovering books I wouldn't have considered before, and my reading horizons are expanding. I've fallen in love with genres I never thought I'd explore, all thanks to this app.
Scratch Man
With this app, reading is no longer a task β it's a delightful habit. Bravo to the creators of this app β they've truly captured the essence of convenient audiobook enjoyment. The smooth playback and thoughtful design have won me over. ππ Adjusting the tone of the voice is a unique and fun feature. I can customize the narration to my liking.
Granola
With this app, I've discovered a new way to make my workouts and downtime more engaging and insightful. Audiobook multitasking made easy β this app's functionality is top-notch. The app's compatibility with CarPlay and Apple Watch is a huge plus. ListenBook's player features are incredibly helpful. Chapters and bookmarks make navigation easy. I was thoroughly impressed by this audiobook. The combination of engaging content and skilled narration made my daily commute something to look forward to. The narrator's timing and intonation were spot-on, enhancing rather than distracting from the material. Definitely worth a credit!
Pixie Taze
The app's stability is impressive β it runs smoothly without any glitches. This app has turned my long walks into delightful literary adventures. It's impressive how the app caters to both seasoned readers and newcomers. The customer support is amazing. They responded to my query within hours. I love how I can create playlists. Itβs perfect for organizing my books.
Lord Pistachio
I'm amazed at how effortlessly I can immerse myself in stories with this app. π± My secret to staying well-read β this app ensures that I'm never without a book, no matter where I am! ππ± ListenBook has seamlessly integrated into my daily life, enhancing my workouts, commutes, and relaxation periods. It's an indispensable part of my routine. Automatic extraction of artwork and metadata adds a professional touch to my library. Downloading books over WiFi is quick and hassle-free. Very convenient.
InsightfulInk
ListenBook's support for CarPlay and Apple Watch integration has made my life so much easier. ListenBook's interface is so intuitive. I was up and running in no time.
Toy Town
Effortlessly managing my audiobook collection β this app's functionality is a winner. The noise reduction feature in ListenBook Pro is a game-changer for enjoying clear recordings.
Super Flick
This app's ease of use has made my downtime more enriching and enjoyable. Adjusting the tone of the narrator's voice adds a layer of personalization that I never knew I needed. The ability to download audiobooks directly is fantastic. ListenBook is very convenient.
Microwave Chardonnay
Chapters make it so easy to pick up where I left off. No more hunting around. Noise reduction is magic. I can finally enjoy dictaphone recordings without discomfort. No more interruptions β the auto-rewind feature is a genius solution for seamless listening. ListenBook has seamlessly integrated into my daily life, enhancing my workouts, commutes, and relaxation periods. It's an indispensable part of my routine.
Sun Lemon
I've fallen in love with literature all over again, thanks to this incredible app. With support for various audio formats, ListenBook ensures I can enjoy my favorite audiobooks without worries. Adjusting the tone of the narrator's voice is a unique feature that adds a personal touch.
CommandX
I've started reading more books than ever before, all thanks to this app. Audiobooks have become a part of my self-care routine, thanks to this app. ListenBook's absence of synchronization requirements adds to its convenience and flexibility. With this app, I can dive into captivating narratives while cooking, cleaning, or commuting β pure magic! Say goodbye to boring commutes β this app's immersive audio experience and intuitive controls have transformed my daily journeys. ππ
Jester
ListenBook Pro's unlimited audiobook length is a boon for those who enjoy deep dives into lengthy narratives. I love the cloud integration. I can access my books from anywhere. The app is so versatile. It works with all my devices.
Kitchen
I can't get enough of this app's versatile features β from playback speed to bookmarking, it's all there. The statistics feature is a fantastic addition β knowing how much time I spend on audiobooks is eye-opening, and ListenBook makes tracking it a breeze. The seamless integration with CarPlay adds convenience and entertainment during my daily commutes. This app is perfect for audiobook lovers. The interface is beautiful and easy to navigate.
Sweet Bacon
Audiobooks have never been this engaging β this app takes them to the next level. This app's intuitive features and easy navigation make it the perfect companion for any audiobook lover. The compatibility with Apple Watch is a game-changer. Controlling my audiobooks from my wrist is genius.
Cool Whip
I'm addicted to this app's seamless performance and impressive library. Configurable auto-rewind is genius. No more confusion when I pause and resume. The app's compatibility with CarPlay is a fantastic bonus. It keeps me entertained during long drives.
Playing a wide variety of audio formats
Works on all devices with iOS 13 and newer
Huge amount of features for a small price
Frequent updates to add new features and improve existing ones
Advanced playback controls
Live sound processing
Changing the timbre of the reader's voice and noise reduction
Translated into more than 20 languages
If you love listening to fiction audiobooks, ListenBook has features to make the process easier.
Edit book data: title, author, cover
Use equalizer to make the sound comfortable for you
Adjust the playback speed
Enjoy dark and light app themes
Supported formats: MP3, M4B, AWB, FLAC, OGG audio files and many more (must be DRM free)
Auto-Bookmarks make it easy to find your place
AirPlay support allows redirection of audio output.
VoiceOver support
Dark mode for night owls
Convenient bookmarking system helps you mark the most important places.
Unlimited bookmarks for each audiobook
Put your own cover on the wager
Share your audiobook with friends
Lock-screen control
Customise app with extensive options
Sleep timer with shake to reset, set custom notification sounds, and a few unique options
Auto rewind depending on paused time, customize rewind times to your liking
Removing background noise from recordings made in classrooms and meetings
Changing the timbre of the reader's voice for a better listening experience