Book description
Winner, Sexuality, 6th Annual Beverly Hills Book AwardsAre you in a sexless marriage or relationship with a partner who may be a low-interest asexual? Praised by leading sexuality experts, this self-help memoir from the sexual partner's perspective is a first.Around one percent of the population-millions worldwide-may be asexual. Asexuals, with some exceptions, do not experience sexual attraction. Asexuality remains the "invisible orientation," largely unknown and misunderstood.While some asexuals enjoy sex, a large majority do not. For those who do not, relationships with sexually motivated people can be challenging. Because in-depth discussion and education about sexuality is limited in our culture, mismatched partners may initially be unaware of differences. This can lead to frustration and confusion. Blaming helps no one.Blending elements of Evan Ocean's intimate story with his own, Dave Wheitner shares expertise and perspective from counseling and psychology degrees, sexuality and intimacy training, and firsthand experiences similar to Evan's. The book cites 120+ sources, including works by asexual authors.Whether you're a sexually motivated partner or relationship professional, the candid story, insights, tools, and tips will resonate with you.This second edition incorporates the asexual community's constructive feedback.Important: This book candidly shares a sexually motivated person's blunders and misunderstandings while learning about asexuality. It acknowledges and validates emotions like frustration, resentment, and rejection, while guiding the reader toward a place of increased understanding. It condemns violations of consent and offers guidance on moving beyond sexual entitlement. It supports the reader in owning the expression and expansion of their own sexuality.Partial Content OverviewPart One: A candid memoir about the challenges of a mixed-orientation relationship, from the sexual partner's perspective. A detailed explanation of what asexuality is and isn't. A primer on attraction, desire, libido, and arousal.Part Two: How to clarify what you want. Identify common internal obstacles to sex and pleasure, such as guilt and shame. Begin to accept and forgive yourself and your partner if necessary. Address feelings of entitlement if needed. Learn to manage "no" and "yes" better. Begin to own your sexuality.Part Three: Ways to expand physical and emotional intimacy with your partner, and also with others if desired. Types of intimacy and giving styles, foreplay, non-genital sensual touch, snuggle parties, and polyamory.Part Four: Strategies for becoming a better sexual partner. Improve presence, awareness, and communication; enlist creativity; address body insecurities; gain perspective on masturbation and porn; make time for sex.Part Five: Guidance on coming out to others, enlisting support, and preparing to shift out of a relationship if other options don't work. Loosen the grip of the societal "sexual control matrix."This book is not intended to provide: -A half-hour quick read or overnight fix.-Strategies for keeping your relationship in its current state. Rather, it is intended to help you determine what changes may best serve everyone's interests. That could mean modifying or possibly ending a relationship.-A replacement for the great books on asexuality written by asexual authors. This book provides a significant introduction, but is still the tip of the iceberg.-Guidance on determining whether you are asexual. This book is intended primarily for sexually motivated partners, or for individuals who don't like sex and want a different perspective.
Hightower
Streamlining audiobook enjoyment β this app's functionality is truly impressive. The app's versatility in downloading audio is impressive. It streamlines the process and saves time. Supports artwork and metadata perfectly. My library looks great!
Trouble Mittens
ListenBook Pro offers amazing value with unlimited audiobook length and noise reduction features. ListenBook has become my ultimate audiobook companion. It enhances every listening session.
Alpha
With this app, I've turned mundane tasks into moments of inspiration and education β it's brilliant! The noise reduction feature in ListenBook Pro is a game-changer for enjoying clear recordings.
Woo Woo
πΌ Balancing responsibilities with relaxation β audiobooks make even mundane tasks feel like an escape. π»π CUE playlist support is a rare gem. Perfect for organizing content efficiently. ListenBook is the best audiobook player Iβve ever used. The app is packed with features like customizable skip intervals, playback speed, and sleep timers. The interface is clean and easy to navigate, making it a joy to use. Five stars!
ByteBard
With this app, I'm rediscovering the joy of reading in the most convenient way. π Adding excitement to each day β this app ensures that every moment is an opportunity to explore new stories. ππ Audiobook immersion simplified β this app's ease of use is a true asset. No more hassle with formats β this app ensures my audiobook adventures are smooth, and my favorite tales are just a tap away. Highly recommended! ππ§
NexusNavigator
I'm impressed by ListenBook's ability to extract artwork and metadata automatically. ListenBook's compatibility with various formats has made it my go-to app for all audio content. Enhancing my daily routines β this app's design makes listening a joy. Auto-rewind is a brilliant feature. Never lose track of where I left off. ListenBook has completely transformed how I enjoy audiobooks. The chapter navigation is seamless, and the statistics feature is a fun way to track my listening progress. The app is stable, fast, and incredibly user-friendly. Five stars!
Twine X
I'm impressed by how much more I'm learning through audiobooks compared to traditional reading. Book groups are a thoughtful addition. It's like having virtual bookshelves! Adjusting playback speed has transformed the way I consume audiobooks. I can tailor the pacing to match my learning style and preferences. Tone adjustment adds a unique touch to my listening experience. I'm hooked! Great for both casual listening and studying. The audio filters are a nice touch.
Gamer Bean
An audiobook lover's dream come true! This app's seamless functionality and diverse format support make it my go-to choice for immersive storytelling. ππ§ The automatic extraction of artwork and metadata adds a professional touch to my audiobook collection.
Y0dler
ListenBook's support for various download methods and audio formats ensures that I always have access to my favorite content. The speed adjustment feature is my secret weapon for studying complex materials.
Twinkle
π‘ This app's convenience is a blessing β I can squeeze in reading time between managing household tasks! π±π©βπ³ The statistics tracking feature is a gem. I'm surprised by how much time I spend on audiobooks!
Suicide Crusher
This app has added a new layer of enjoyment to my downtime β I'm truly grateful. ListenBook has made my daily activities more interesting and meaningful β I'm hooked! Accessing my favorite audiobooks has never been easier β this app's user-centric design and comprehensive features make it an absolute gem. π±π§ ListenBook has breathed new life into my audiobook collection. I can't imagine using anything else. Beautiful layout and easy access to chapters. Really impressed with ListenBook.
The Beekeeper
The seamless integration with my car's audio system is a road trip dream. π± No more lugging around heavy books β this app brings the library to my phone! ππ± πββοΈπ I'm conquering literary marathons with ease, all thanks to this app's intuitive controls and smooth functionality. π±π The app's ability to extract artwork and metadata automatically is a huge time-saver. The app's support for CarPlay and Apple Watch makes it a true companion for all occasions.
New Magoo
I'm constantly amazed by the vast selection β there's always something new to discover. Audiobooks on this app have made my daily walks a time of reflection and inspiration. The app's performance is exceptional, ensuring a smooth and uninterrupted audiobook experience. It's clear that it's designed with audiobook enthusiasts in mind.
Street Squirrel
The Looping playback and Shuffle features on ListenBook help me customize my listening sessions to my liking. The ListenBook app has transformed my device into a portable audiobook library that I can carry everywhere. ListenBook has made my audiobook journey effortless, turning every moment into an escape. Gone are the days of waiting for the right time to read β this app is always ready.
Wild Tesla
I can't believe how easy it is to discover new titles and genres. Pure delight! This app has brought the magic of books back into my life. ListenBook Pro's noise reduction feature is a blessing for clear dictaphone recordings. Smooth playback and great sound quality. ListenBook is my new favorite app!
Freesia
I'm enjoying books I never thought I'd be interested in β all thanks to this app. Book Groups on ListenBook make it easy to categorize and access my audiobooks. ListenBook has turned my downtime into an opportunity for exploration and growth. This app's support for various formats ensures that I can enjoy my audiobooks without any hassle. The statistics tracking feature is very useful. ListenBook helps me keep track of my listening time.
BlackExcalibur
Kudos for the thoughtfully curated collections β I'm discovering hidden gems! This app has transformed my long flights into productive and enjoyable experiences. π Unleashing the power of audiobooks with this user-friendly app β it's like having a personal storyteller on demand! ππ₯ The automatic extraction of artwork and metadata keeps my audiobook library organized and visually appealing.
PixelPioneer
This app's convenience has made my downtime more rewarding and enriching. ListenBook's support for looping and shuffling playback adds versatility to my audiobook enjoyment. The statistics feature in ListenBook adds an element of self-awareness to my audiobook consumption. ListenBookβs playback is silky-smooth. The app never glitches.
Moon Laser
I'm amazed at how this app has expanded my reading horizons. With this app, my daily routines have become moments of intellectual discovery and personal fulfillment. Thanks to ListenBook, downloading audiobooks is a hassle-free process, regardless of the source.
Onion King
This app is a gift for book lovers who struggle to find reading time. ListenBook is the best audiobook player Iβve ever used. The app is packed with features like customizable skip intervals, playback speed, and sleep timers. The interface is clean and easy to navigate, making it a joy to use. Five stars!
Playing a wide variety of audio formats
Works on all devices with iOS 13 and newer
Huge amount of features for a small price
Frequent updates to add new features and improve existing ones
Advanced playback controls
Live sound processing
Changing the timbre of the reader's voice and noise reduction
Translated into more than 20 languages
If you love listening to fiction audiobooks, ListenBook has features to make the process easier.
Edit book data: title, author, cover
Use equalizer to make the sound comfortable for you
Adjust the playback speed
Enjoy dark and light app themes
Supported formats: MP3, M4B, AWB, FLAC, OGG audio files and many more (must be DRM free)
Auto-Bookmarks make it easy to find your place
AirPlay support allows redirection of audio output.
VoiceOver support
Dark mode for night owls
Convenient bookmarking system helps you mark the most important places.
Unlimited bookmarks for each audiobook
Put your own cover on the wager
Share your audiobook with friends
Lock-screen control
Customise app with extensive options
Sleep timer with shake to reset, set custom notification sounds, and a few unique options
Auto rewind depending on paused time, customize rewind times to your liking
Removing background noise from recordings made in classrooms and meetings
Changing the timbre of the reader's voice for a better listening experience